DESCRIPTION: Correctly report shard size in citus_shards view
When looking at citus_shards, people are interested in the actual size
that all the data related to the shard takes up on disk.
`pg_total_relation_size` is the function to use for that purpose. The
previously used `pg_relation_size` does not include indexes or TOAST.
Especially the missing toast can have enormous impact on the size of the
shown data.
* Reimplement citus_update_table_statistics
* Update stats for the given table not colocation group
* Add tests for reimplemented citus_update_table_statistics
* Use coordinated transaction, merge with citus_shard_sizes functions
* Update the old master_update_table_statistics as well
Jelte Fennema
Marco Slot
Naisila Puka